Student, drummer, ice skater, crossword solver, cuddler. Looking for a little girl who wants to be adored.
I balance two full-time jobs with part-time courses, which may seem tough but it's actually energizing. When I get free time I love to play the drums. I rigged up my set with electronic sensors and I learn songs through Rock Band. My favorite band is Rush, and I'm wicked proud that I can play most of "2112". My other hobbies include biking, reading, playing games (any kind), cooking and trying new foods, watching jeopardy, and playing hockey. I like fixing stuff too, but I wouldn't consider myself a handyman really. Just determined not to be outsmarted by something that requires only a basic set of tools.
I've been interested in ABDL for a long time, and it's something that I want to be part of my everyday life. I have a side of myself that is very affectionate, nurturing, protective, guiding, and caring. I know of course these are common traits in most relationships, but my deep-down expression of them sometimes feels like they're excessive in a vanilla life, or makes me feel like I'm holding back and hiding something. I would like to let these daddyish feelings resonate with a little girl who wants to feel cared for, adored, and free to be little while I be grown-up enough for both of us.
When I think of having a fun daddy life, here are some things that come to mind:
* building blanket forts
* reading pop-up books at bedtime and doing voices for the characters
* hanging up colored pictures on the fridge
* giving bubble baths, drying her off, and brushing her hair
* watching her play with her toys
* giving bottles and pacifiers
* changing diapers
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"I am looking for friends," said the little prince. "What does that mean--'tame'?"
"It is an act too often neglected," said the fox. "It means to establish ties."
"'To establish ties'?"
"Just that," said the fox. "To me, you are still nothing more than a little boy who is just like a hundred thousand other little boys. And I have no need of you. And you, on your part, have no need of me. To you, I am nothing more than a fox like a hundred thousand other foxes. But if you tame me, then we shall need each other. To me, you will be unique in all the world. To you, I shall be unique in all the world . . ."
"My life is very monotonous," the fox said. "I hunt chickens; men hunt me. All the chickens are just alike, and all the men are just alike. And, in consequence, I am a little bored. But if you tame me, it will be as if the sun came to shine on my life. I shall know the sound of a step that will be different from all the others. Other steps send me hurrying back underneath the ground. Yours will call me, like music, out of my burrow. And then look: you see the grain-fields down yonder? I do not eat bread. Wheat is of no use to me. The wheat fields have nothing to say to me. And that is sad. But you have hair that is the color of gold. Think how wonderful that will be when you have tamed me! The grain, which is also golden, will bring me back the thought of you. And I shall love to listen to the wind in the wheat . . ."
The fox gazed at the little prince, for a long time.
"Please--tame me!" he said.
"I want to, very much," the little prince replied. "But I have not much time. I have friends to discover, and a great many things to understand."
"One only understands the things that one tames," said the fox. "Men have no more time to understand anything. They buy things all ready made at the shops. But there is no shop anywhere where one can buy friendship, and so men have no friends any more. If you want a friend, tame me . . ."