I like the (private) humiliation aspect and bonding aspect of diapers and ABDL play. I'm probably around 80% on the DL side and 20% on the AB side, but I'm interested in doing just about everything that a normal AB would just for different reasons. I don't really regress but the idea makes me feel submissive, closer to a daddy, and helps me de-stress. I'd love a daddy to diaper me, make me wet my diaper, spank me, give me bottles, feed me, put a pacifier in my mouth, tease and make fun of me, put me in a bib and babyish clothes, and all that stuff. Ideally I'd like to be a submissive son to a dominant daddy. I'm also interested in other kinks as well. While I'm not into scat or messing, it's possible I might be convinced to mess my diaper for the right daddy. I don't want to be a diaper slave, just a diaper boy that gets babied and teased by a nice daddy. In exchange, I will do as I'm told.
I'm definitely not interested in sissy stuff or pretending to be a girl or open, public humiliation of any kind.