Hi Hi my fellow Friends
As a warning, I am going to say something here that's going to be extremely blunt and something that I feel needs to be said to every single person. It is not to any particular Individual, Group or Community and this applies to every human member that exists on this Planet to which we live.
Ready?... Final Warning!
To all of you that are Spineless, Cold-Hearted, Snobby, Pathetic, Cowardly, Spiteful, Obnoxious, Self-Centred, Self-Absorbed, Callous, Immature, Immoral, Rude, Arrogant and outright Ruthless Small Minded A""holes that think Ghosting is acceptable then think again!!!
It does not matter what relationship you are trying or having built with someone whether that be Acquaintances, Friendship, Courtship or Partnership... IT IS GOD DAMN DISRESPECTFUL TO GHOST PEOPLE!!! Those that practice this whether it was just once, twice or you have the habit to do it constantly over and over then all I can say to you is this...
You are absolutely the worst kind of people that ever existed, and I genuinely hope you never find happiness in life... EVER!
If you absolutely find me saying this truly offensive, then I guess true words are the hardest to hear, and I stand by my statement no matter what anyone has to say. I say this simply because I am afraid that the people who do practice this horrible form of Passive-Aggressive Abuse probably don't really care about the Anxiety, Depression, Self Consciousness, Self-Blame, Guilt, Destructiveness and just out right Hurtfulness that they inflict on their Victims.
IT IS NOT JUSTIFIABLE!
IT IS DISRESPECTFUL!
IT IS IMMORAL!
IT IS CRUEL! ...
IT IS DAMAGING IN EVERY WAY TO EVERYONE!
Anyone who fights against what I am saying here and wishes to argue your case then quite simply do not bother because I am not willing to excuse this behaviour no matter what. There is a difference between Ghosting someone due to genuine Fear of that person, concerns in regard to your Safety by communicating further with a person, ended communications because of their Abuse in any sort of form and just doing it because you thought it was easy to just never respond ever again without needing to say what was wrong (if anything) or a simple short "Goodbye Forever" when you make the decision to never go further. Now I totally agree with the first examples and find them plausible reasons to make such a decision, but I am not even remotely going to excuse the latter.
So my message here is this... Think twice before you Ghost someone because the damage caused is pretty much irreversible just by you doing one little selfish act. If you don't want to talk with a person any more and for whatever reasons you feel are excusable, then it is always better to at least say Goodbye!... an explanation as to why would be nice too to go with it, but we already know asking you to say Goodbye is a miracle in itself at this point. It doesn't even have to be that long nor complicated, but it is an absolute must in my book out of respect for yourself as well as the person you are about to end any form of contact with.