AltLofiBaby

Hey guys, how are you?

I'm a 22yro abdl little, also a hairstylist/Barber living in NY. I've been within this community since my teens though I've actually finally made the decision to put myself out there and go for a relationship I truly want. When it comes to having a partner who is also part of this community I have no experience in, I'm used to vanilla relationships and could never reach the fulfillment I'd want in them. It always felt like a part of me was missing and it was. I'm the kind of person that already knows what I want in a relationship right from the get go. I don't typically like surprises, I'd like to get to know someone rather than jump into things and making big decisions.

Despite my job I am introverted, I don't like socializing or being in crowded places. It gives me heaps of anxiety and I get overstimulated very easily especially because my own job requires so much of it already. But that doesn't mean that I won't go out to have a good time, it's just on a timer or on certain days I'm just too drained to ever want to go out.

I am AFAB, I consider myself nonbinary and I dress however I feel like except I mostly dress in whats actually appropriate for work. I wear a lot of alternative Gothic style clothing, baggy clothes, sweatshirts and graphic-ts if I want to dress myself and put in effort into my usual style (if I'm not working). I wear my homeless colorful hello kitty stuff at home because its my comfy clothes.

Interests and Hobbies.

I used to be a huge foodie, I really loved trying new food and exploring different places to eat. I also enjoy hiking or very long walks. (I'm a city girl so trying to find a trail here is not quite the best. I sometimes walk an hour one way and an hour back or more if it's summer time) I'm also a homebody, I like staying inside to read my books. My favorite genres is fantasy, romance and dark romance, my goal is to be able to build my own library. I also enjoy videogames, I play on my laptop/steam games, and I play on Xbox. I watch anime and mostly keep up on my favorite YouTubers and twitch streamers. I crochet sometimes, mostly plushies or a blanket until my fingers are cramping up. I like to collect Funko pops and figurines,(anime of course). I love a good horror, thriller, mystery, K-dramas, C-dramas, J-dramas, and scifi movies and shows. I'm not one for old shows.

What I'm looking for.

I'm someone who holds communication at the highest standpoint, I also am looking for someone who has emotional intelligence or understanding to a degree and not perfection. I go based on what we can bring for each other and what our compatibility is and personality. I want to get to know you first, who you are, what your needs and understand what you want and for you to understand mine and see if we are a match before we ever move on. I don't like rushing things, I don't like being pushed into stuff when I'm not ready. I don't want to be labeled as someones little girl when I just barely known you.

A daddy/mommy who is soft but knows exactly when to be strict. A bit of both. Now it doesn't have to be exact and not having certain characteristics is not a deal breaker this is just what I'm hoping to find in my future Mommy/Daddy. But certain characteristics are a must for me.

-24/7 ddlg relationship

-Someone who I can rely on and be able to go to for anything.

-Guide and lead me when I know I can fully trust them with me and not control me. I would be trusting you with close to everything down to making final decisions.

-know and keeps in mind about each other's boundaries and respects them.

-more than willing to hold my hand to navigate this lifestyle with me

-knows how to set rules, willing to train, place in proper punishments. And/or likes routines, everything on a set schedule or some form of schedule.

-Enjoys spending quality time whether it's outings or nights in. Willing to be actively involved when I'm regressed or in my headspace. (Park, library, playtime, homeschooling, snack run, nap time, etc)

-high sex drive, I have a high sex drive and kinda need someone to keep up with that.

-help me have the kind of normal childhood I've missed out on for years and have the relationship I've been wanting to have that can't be fulfilled in a vanilla relationship.

-help me fulfill your needs as a submissive all the while respecting each other's limits. I am open so far to many things, and am open to try new things until I find other limits.

If we ever match and things go well and we'd like to make it into a long term relationship (which is what I'm looking for here) I don't want this to be an online thing. I do eventually want this to be in person, I don't do well with long distance for long extended periods of time, its great for getting to know each other. But for long term relationships, I prefer in person and it requires big the decisions of relocation and it's something we can always talk about if we ever get to that point.