ComfyBlanket93

I’ve been in the community for 14 years. I’m a lifelong DL, looking for something IRL, although I don't mind starting online. I've been on both sides of the community, and while I find being a dom to be very fulfilling and enjoyable, I also have a little side. It's not something that needs to be constantly indulged, but it's nice to be on the receiving end of the care sometimes. However, I will say that I think it's important that both sides contribute to the relationship as one person making all of the effort can quickly become draining.

As a dom, I enjoy creating rules and structure, as well as reading bedtime stories and building routines with little ones. I think that's very important for creating an environment where you can feel free to let go and be yourself, although I'm not at all afraid to put my foot down and enforce the rules when the situation demands it. I'm on the softer side as far as being a dom goes, I look to support and guide, not to force or demand a specific behavior. Diapers are an integral part of that for me, although that probably goes without saying.

As a sub, obviously I enjoy being diapered and changed, but I also enjoy a little teasing, but I'm not a fan of degradation. I also like being read to and doing mentally engaging things like puzzles.

I try to keep active and enjoy the outdoors, but I'm no stranger to a cozy night in either. If that sounds like something you'd enjoy, feel free to message!