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Donetta

  • Last seen less than a day ago
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Friends

201 friends

Albums

12 albums
Gender:
Man 
Age:
74
Location:
Spokane, Washington, United States
Appearance
Body type:
Average 
Height:
5' 10" 
Eyes:
Brown 
Hair:
Dark brown 
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (white) 
Lifestyle
Smoking:
No 
Drinking:
No 
Living situation:
Alone 
Social Setting:
Comic relief 
TV watching:
News junkie 
Home and family
Marital status:
Divorced 
Have kids:
No 
Want (more) kids:
No 
Professional life
Education:
College grad 
Employment status:
Part-time 
Personal
Sense of humor:
Friendly, Clever / Quick witted 
Kinky Interests:
Disposable Diapers, Cloth Diapers, Plastic Pants 
In my own words:

I feel the ABDL lifestyle should not be a source of shame or guilt for any of us. I enjoy wearing diapers of all kinds. I also like wearing women's clothes, sissy clothes and footed pajamas. I am bi, both passive and active and I like enemas. I have a lot of kinks. I consider myself to be a sissy at times. If you message me I will always answer you about ABDL topics and almost anything else that doesn't involved minors, animals or violence. If you message me in baby talk I will not respond to it. I also like to talk about other topics other than ABDL related, I love to talk about music for instance. I am not judgmental. Message me about anything (legal of course.)

BTW, this is not a lifestyle I chose, it chose me.

VERY IMPORTANT: Please watch this video about the sextortion attempts targeting the ABDL community in particular, and be safe and smart, there's a lot of them on this site. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XzxSRbwQCoE This site doesn't require human review of profiles and there are two to three guys making multiple women accounts a day trying to sextort people here. Please be careful, don't click on any Facebook links, Google hangouts, real phone, email address or anything they can use a data broker to get your real identity from.

Anything on my page or anything else about me anywhere on this site including but not limited to pictures, photograph, text, communications with others or anything else is not to be posted or distributed anywhere else outside of this site. If I have found this has happened you may be subject to legal ramifications.

Apparently some universities are putting us and our life style under a microscope and using our pics and anything else they can find for research studies. Feel free to cut and paste it and put it on your page if you like:

WARNING: Any University and all other institutions using this site or its associated sites for projects - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile, communications, or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.

Recent activity
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SmilinBare and Donetta are now friends.
  • Less than a day ago
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Donetta posted:

!! BE SAFE AND SMART! Men are making accounts with a woman’s (or man’s) pic to sextort (blackmail,) people here. There's a lot scammers on all ABDL sites.  Please be careful, don't click on any Facebook links, google hangouts, accept invitations to chat anywhere else like discord or telegram, or use real phone numbers, email addresses or anything they can use a data broker to get your real identity from.

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Donetta posted:

In addition to the above also avoid messaging platforms. If your new friend wants to move your conversation to a messaging service like WhatsApp, Telegram, or Signal, that’s a red flag.

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Donetta posted on Hoolio's wall:

WOW, that is what I call a donut! Smile

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Donetta posted:

!!! BE SAFE AND SMART! Men are making accounts with a woman’s (or man’s) pic to sextort (blackmail,) people here. There's a lot scammers on all ABDL sites.  Please be careful, don't click on any Facebook links, google hangouts, accept invitations to chat anywhere else like discord or telegram, or use real phone numbers, email addresses or anything they can use a data broker to get your real identity from.

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Donetta posted:

In addition to the above also avoid messaging platforms. If your new friend wants to move your conversation to a messaging service like WhatsApp, Telegram, or Signal, that’s a red flag.

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diaperDave49 and Donetta are now friends.
  • Oct 27, 2025
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Donetta posted:

CAUTION! This and other ABDL sites have constant new members that post a woman’s picture that are actually being posted by some men to sextort (blackmail,) people. They are scammers. Be very careful. don't click on any Facebook links, google hangouts, accept invitations to chat anywhere else like discord or telegram, or use real phone numbers, email addresses or anything they can use a data broker to get your real identity from.

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Donetta posted:

In addition to the above also avoid messaging platforms. If your new friend wants to move your conversation to a messaging service like WhatsApp, Telegram, or Signal, that’s a red flag.

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Donetta posted on Roselittle's wall:

!! IMPORTANT: Be safe and smart, there are scammers on this site and other ABDL sites. Men are making accounts with a woman’s pic (or man’s) to sextort (blackmail,) people here. Please be careful, don't click on any Facebook links, google hangouts, don’t accept invitations to chat elsewhere like telegram or discord, or use real phone numbers, email addresses, or anything they can use a data broker to get your real identity from.

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ledbullet100
  • Nov 5, 2025 at 5:45 PM Edited

you call THAT suspicious im from a city close by and this guy called it the SAME city if that's not incredibly suspicious I dont know what is but NOTHING was more suspicious than her wanting to go to discord ON HER FIRST MESSAGE TO ME like we just started talking and you barely mention the kink the only time they did say anything about it is vaguely saying they were a little and that's it i wouldn't take any risks at all to a person like this close by or not

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Donetta
  • Oct 27, 2025 at 6:00 PM

Exactly, it is very suspicious to me when they say something generic with nothing to do with our interested. Yesterday some guy messaged me that I am pretty positive he is a scammer. He ask me, " So what are you here for?" Wouldn't that be kind of obvious? If he messages me again and wants to chat with me anywhere elsewhere I'll report him and get him booted off the site.

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ordinaryaverageweird
  • Oct 27, 2025 at 5:19 PM

Yep, this seems like another one. Either that or an incredibly boring person. Real people would have more to say on their profile than generic things completely unrelated to the fetish

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Donetta posted on Roselittle's wall:

In addition to the above also avoid messaging platforms. If your new friend wants to move your conversation to a messaging service like WhatsApp, Telegram, or Signal, that’s a red flag.

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Donetta posted on AleCagliari's wall:

Ciao Ale Cagliari. Smile Vorrei darti il ​​benvenuto su DiaperMates come nuovo membro. Sono sicuro che ti divertirai qui e spero di fare nuove amicizie. Sunglasses

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AleCagliari
  • Oct 26, 2025 at 2:19 PM

Ciao Donetta e grazie

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Donetta posted on Ashleysmommy23's wall:

!! BE SAFE AND SMART! Men are making accounts with a woman’s (or man’s) pic to sextort (blackmail,) people here. There's a lot scammers on all ABDL sites.  Please be careful, don't click on any Facebook links, google hangouts, accept invitations to chat anywhere else like discord or telegram, or use real phone numbers, email addresses or anything they can use a data broker to get your real identity from.

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Donetta posted on Ashleysmommy23's wall:

In addition to the above also avoid messaging platforms. If your new friend wants to move your conversation to a messaging service like WhatsApp, Telegram, or Signal, that’s a red flag.

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OmegaDiaperPet and Donetta are now friends.