Lilpoofpants

I'm a 36-year-old curvy submissive DL with a successful, ambitious life by day--and a deeply obedient side that loves to come out to play. My kink sweet spot? Humiliation. I get off on the emotional charge of embarrassment all in the name of funishment.

In my downtime, I devour fantasy romance novels and proudly embrace my title as a smut slut. I love exploring sensuality with creativity and kink, and I'm always curious about new dynamics and bdsm mischief.

Humiliation is my driver, including in being a DL. That said, the kink only works when there's respect behind it. I expect aftercare and connection, even after the most humiliating scene. I am not into degradation (attacking my worth “fat” “ugly”
“Uninteresting”) so please don’t.

I love little space but it takes a lot for me to get there. A lot. Including feeling very secure and being mentally in the right place. Once I’m there I need time. There’s no quick trip to little space for me. I fantasize about a whole nursery setup but I’d feel silly unless I had the right partner to guide me.

You can probably win me over with a good sense of humor and a squishmallow.