Nyabdl22

Hey everyone:) You all can call me J. I’m M23 and im looking to connect with likeminded women (no older than 30ish please!) I have a heavy preference for someone in the NYC metro area as I’m looking to hang out and eventually play IRL but im ok with chatting online too if we really vibe! I’m very switchy so I’d be happy with getting to know either a dom or a sub (Ideally another switch but not a deal breaker!). My dom side is very gentle and caring but I can be stern when my little isn’t listening! My sub side is very cuddly and loving of attention, praise, and teasing.

I’m not really looking for a long term relationship at the moment, just friends and play partners. If something does end up developing then that’s a different story but I’m not going into this with the intention of starting a LTR!

Some more things about me: I have a decent sized stash of diapers, and, I enjoy (giving/doing and receiving/watching) wetting, messing, desperation, humiliation as well as pretty much all the other things that come along with abdl . I can also host as I live alone, you must be 4/20 friendly though as I smoke every day.

Outside of kink: Im a well educated and well rounded individual capable of holding actual conversations and I look for the same in any friend! I’m an engineer, and I love my job. I love being outside and I do a lot of skiing and I love to hike and swim. I love video games and play on PC and switch. Currently the only game I have been playing is Marvel Rivals. I also just started to go back to the gym after about a year away from it. Another hobby of mine is my huge Lego Star Wars collection! I’m also a big geek when it comes to movies and tv shows :) and as a lifelong New Yorker I’m also a huge sports fan.

I hope I’m of interest to some of you out there! I look forward to hearing from you :)