I know I'm asking a lot but for something like this I can't help but want something like this. But it's important for a healthy relationship.I ask for this because I want all to feel safe and because I don't want anyone to see abuse. those rules apply to every little myself included when & if I slip they will be followed as long as it can't cause physical harm or a hard limit I believe in consent over the alternative so always remember you traffic light color safewords